Feeling anxious about your first trip? Try these 6 expert hacks
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For some people, travel can cause a lot of anxiety, even under normal circumstances. Before the coronavirus pandemic, more than 55% of people who had flown recently said air travel was more stressful than going to work.
And then the entire travel industry came to a halt. People all over the world were forced to shelter in place. As a result, some people haven’t travelled away from home in more than a year.
Even the most confident road warriors may find that hitting the road post-lockdown is an unfamiliar, uncomfortable experience. If that was the case for you before the global health crisis, it might be doubly true once we’re out of the current lockdown and travel is permitted once again.
But if you trust your instinct and ease yourself back into travel, you might find your next trip is a breeze.
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Visit a familiar destination
If you’re anxious about planning your first trip since the onset of the pandemic, don’t feel pressured to splash out with a whirlwind tour of a new continent or your first-ever cruise.
“A lot of anxiety comes from fear of the unknown,” said Iris Waichler, MSW, LCSW, an author, licensed clinical social worker and patient advocate who also writes for Choosing Therapy, an online therapy platform. So, Waichler says, anxious travellers should plan a trip where they “can control as much as possible.”
Waichler recommends choosing a “place you have been before and are familiar with so you know what to expect in terms of accommodations and what is involved in getting there.”
This might be your favourite country or it could be the park around the corner from your home. Christina Tan, a luxury travel influencer, also says to choose a place “you have been before and [that] give you happiness and positive vibes. Take it easy,” she said. “Don’t go for a new adventure yet.”
Wherever it is, picking a place you feel comfortable in and know well can mitigate some of the anxiety. After all, things will still look a little unfamiliar: The last time you travelled, you didn’t need to wear a mask or stay two metres apart from others.
There’s never been a more important time to research the specifics of your trip in advance and plan for worst-case scenarios.
Tan says to “prepare … travel insurance, regular medication, vitamins and [a] first-aid kit.”
Travellers should also call in advance to make sure they have all the information they need to feel comfortable with their travel decisions. Waichler said you can call in advance to get more information about medical services, vaccination requirements and more.
Pick your favourite pastimes
What you’re doing is as important as where you go. If you’ve never skied before, you might not want to hit the slopes for the first time during a pandemic. And even if learning to surf has long been on your bucket list, now might not be the time to plan a trip centred around an entirely new activity you might not even enjoy.
The first time I travelled during the pandemic, I made sure the trip was filled with hiking and that I had easy access to state and national parks. Not only did this make it easy for me to stay outside and avoid other people, but it also meant I could look forward to an activity I love and am comfortable doing. I didn’t have to learn any new skills or buy any new gear — two things that can be inherently stressful.
Stay close to home
You don’t have to fly across the globe to travel. And, in fact, choosing a close-to-home destination for your first trip can help you ease back into the process. There are a number of benefits to this. For one, if you stay close to home, you won’t have to adjust to any new rules or regulations or factor in testing requirements or quarantine mandates. But if things do go wrong — even if that means you simply decide that you’re uncomfortable and want to return home — it’s much easier to do so if you’re within driving distance.
Remember, if you travel abroad, you don’t just have the normal logistics (flights and accommodations) to consider. You’ll also may need to arrange a COVID-19 test within three days of your return to the United Kingdom. You might also have a destination’s travel requirements and restrictions to contend with. Plus, there are simply fewer flights and services available to travellers right now. When you dip your toes back into travel, consider the beach town around the corner — not on the other side of the planet.
Book with an expert
More than ever, travellers of all stripes are turning to group tour operators, travel agents and advisors. Again, there are so many logistics to consider when you’re travelling, and requirements can change overnight.
Take the pressure off by leveraging an expert who is responsible for coordinating all the details, keeping track of the rules and vetting providers. Plus, if you opt for a group tour experience, you’ll have a built-in network of other like-minded travellers you can turn to for support if you’re feeling anxious.
Give yourself permission to wait
Even if your family, friends and neighbours are announcing travel plans, don’t feel pressured to book the first flight out of town. If the thought of travelling makes you anxious right now, or even months from now when, hopefully, COVID-19 is less of an immediate threat, it’s okay to keep your thumb on the pause button.
“Tell yourself it is OK to feel anxiety about travelling,” Waichler said. “There is nothing wrong with it. It is normal to feel anxious about travelling… when we are so used to living under so many restrictions [and] with so much uncertainty ….”
Travel is, of course, always a deeply personal decision, and that will continue to be true even when vaccines are widely available and we’ve achieved some level of herd immunity. So take your time. And, if you decide to book a trip and realise at the last minute you’re not comfortable, feel empowered to back out. It’s understandable if now isn’t the right time for you to travel.
Featured photo by Chalabala/Twenty20
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